ARE YOU ALL IN
How you Show Up in the World directly Impacts what you Create in the World
Candy Batterton
6/5/20262 min read
Are You All In
I had an incredible realization on a deeper level that beyond my words, I need to be ALL IN and set 100% intention on what I want to create in the world. We need to combine action, choice and words.
I was able to see why some things in my life pan out better than others, and I realized that I am not all in on everything I wish to create in my life. The reasons I have come to realize this for myself are playing small and being half in and half out.
What I mean by that is, we all know the phrase having one foot in and the other foot out. When we are in this mode of being, we are in fear of something. I had the awareness that I do this sometimes as a means of protection and to feel safe. I have a fear of failure due to conditioning from childhood and society, to have a false sense of safety and to honestly not be fully responsible.
What I was able to see is that where I was 100% in and pushed past the fear, I would have success. Even more than success, I could create what I perceived as miracles. When I wasn't all in, I generated failure (my fear), being unsafe (my fear) and I felt powerless/without choice. I experienced everything I was trying to avoid which created a victim mentality.
Being ALL IN is in some ways a leap of faith, knowing that the Universe has a safety net under you when you follow your heart, dreams and desires. I once heard that desires are a want of God/Spirit, so who are we to deny that for ourselves and the world.
When we feel unworthy, fear of failure, sometimes even fear of success, being vulnerable, being seen, and fear of rejection and judgment, we block this flow and create separation from what we want to birth in our lives and the world.
The invitation is there to see where you aren't ALL IN on what you would like to create in your Life. Look at the reasons why you hold back, what is underneath that, and begin to make shifts and changes that help you align more completely with who you truly came here to be.
I am making a choice to be seen, to feel safe, to realize that if something doesn't work out I am not a failure, to be courageous, to be generous and to show up in my Authenticity.